Be Clear and
Stick to the Point

Print Article Email article to a friend »

Be Clear And Consistent

In a recent survey on teen driving, most parents said their teens knew what was expected of them. Yet most teens in the survey said they were uncertain of their parents' expectations. This type of miscommunication is common between parents and teens. How can you help? Try to be as clear, consistent and precise as possible when talking about smart driving. Avoid generalizations whenever you can. For example, instead of saying "Be careful out there," you can say "Make sure you wear your seat belt" or "Remember to check your blind spot." The direction you give should be based on your knowledge of your teen's driving and the specific areas where they need instruction or feedback.

It's also important to communicate consistently and often. Don't send mixed messages. And remember that the talk about smart driving is one that should continue over time.

Putting things in writing with a Parent/Teen driving agreement can also help.

Learn more about Parent/Teen driving agreements. Download a sample agreement.

Stick to the Point

Teens can be emotional. And intentionally or not, they may take the conversation off the track. Do your best to keep things focused on the issue at hand. If the conversation starts to wander, bring it quickly back to the point. Try to stay in the moment and avoid bringing up past differences.