Avoid Power
Struggles

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Challenging authority is a normal part of teen behavior. It's one way teens assert their independence and establish their own identities. This can be particularly true when it comes to interacting with their parents. Teens may try to test you. And they can be very good at pushing your buttons.

Although it may be difficult, do your best to avoid power struggles with your teen. Active listening, setting the right tone and being clear and consistent can help keep the conversation focused and productive. If your teen insists on being argumentative, you might try this: simply refuse to argue. Your teen may find this disarming. And cutting down on the fireworks can open the door to more productive conversations about smart driving.